Giving Thanks

Since it’s that time of year I thought I should write about thankfulness. When you have a chronic illness, sometimes it’s hard to see past the negatives and really take a look at what there is in your life to be thankful for. For me, when I was really sick with ulcerative colitis, it was hard for me to think of anything to be thankful for. I just couldn’t understand why this was happening to me and I began to look at life through a negative lens. I was so sick, I had to put my life on hold to have major surgeries, I had to wear an ostomy bag, I was in terrible pain, I had complications from the surgeries…nothing seemed to be going right. Now that I am healthy again, I look back on my whole experience and realize that I had, and still have, a whole lot to be thankful for. I have an amazing husband, family, and friends who were there for me throughout everything and I have fantastic doctors who gave me my life back.

Although my experience was a rough one, I remember during one of my many hospital visits I was staying on the cancer floor. Every day I could hear the patient across from me coughing and vomiting because of the chemotherapy. This went on pretty much nonstop. I remember thinking that as bad as my experience was it could be worse and that there were people who had it much harder than I did. It put things in perspective.

Having a chronic illness can be an eye-opening experience if you let it. It can make you more empathetic to others who have an illness. It can teach you to appreciate what you have, even the little things, like going outside for a walk, eating a good meal, or spending a night out with friends. It can help you to realize that you are strong and can deal with anything. It helps you to focus on the things in your life that really matter. So, I urge you to try and think about the things in your life that you are grateful for, despite your chronic illness and despite how hard it can be sometimes.